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" gibbousmoon wrote: " robmafia wrote: wtf? when did i say or imply i'm a victim? hahaha All the time. It's like a theme with you, man. citations requested. i don't expect to see even one, of course. " Paldamus wrote: @Robmafia. 1.No i don't and Occam's razor does not apply here at all. ...hahahahahaha 1. then why are you trying to argue about it? 2. wrong, it does. because it was correct. obviously. " Paldamus wrote: 2.Never said they were the same thing, but they result in a similar result ...so... it "does not apply here at all," then? [Removed by Support] "Your forum signature was removed as it was considered to be inappropriate and a breach of our Code of Conduct." ...it was quotes. from the forum. lolz! Last edited by robmafia on Nov 21, 2018, 2:49:46 AM	Posted by robmafia on Nov 21, 2018, 2:44:45 AM Quote this Post
" robmafia wrote: " gibbousmoon wrote: " robmafia wrote: wtf? when did i say or imply i'm a victim? hahaha All the time. It's like a theme with you, man. citations requested. i don't expect to see even one, of course. Literally every post I've seen you make responding to criticisms of your behavior A. refuses to take responsibility, and B. blames others. These are among the prime characterics of a victim mentality. Oh, you want examples? Here you go: https://www.pathofexile.com/forum/view-thread/2249629/page/10#p15952175 https://www.pathofexile.com/forum/view-thread/2249629/page/10#p15952146 https://www.pathofexile.com/forum/view-thread/2249629/page/9#p15951599 https://www.pathofexile.com/forum/view-thread/2249629/page/8#p15951448 https://www.pathofexile.com/forum/view-thread/2248351/page/14#p15951443 https://www.pathofexile.com/forum/view-thread/2248351/page/13#p15951390 https://www.pathofexile.com/forum/view-thread/2249629/page/7#p15951383 And that's only from the first three pages of your post history. Forgive me for not digging any deeper into your pool of toxicity; I doubt your behavior gets better looking further back. Your signature also reeks of it: "Boo hoo, GGG has moderated me, and it wasn't my fault I tell you! Look how minor my infractions were!" You'll respond to this post with similar sentiments as well, I am almost certain. Feel free to do so if it makes you feel better; I rest my case. Wash your hands, Exile! Last edited by gibbousmoon on Nov 21, 2018, 3:26:43 AM	Posted by gibbousmoon on Nov 21, 2018, 3:12:05 AM Quote this Post
" gibbousmoon wrote: How you say something is just as important as what you say. There's a saying I read somewhere, and even though it's a bit trite, I find it to be almost universally true: "People will forget the things you did, but they will never forget the way you made them feel." I have found that it applies to both kind and unkind words and behaviors. And this is not "safespace" bullshit either; it has genuinely pragmatic applications. Communication is all about creating messages that the recipient is able to receive and understand. If you come to me and share a story about the car accident you were in that was your fault, I can say "Dude, you need to learn to drive already. Here, you can read my old book on right-of-way laws in this country, since you obviously need it more than I do." or "Hey, sorry to hear it. Maybe you forgot some of the right-of-way laws? I have a book on them, I'm happy to lend it to you." Then, a year later, something similar happens, and who are you going to go to for advice? If I responded the first way, it probably won't be me. You can go through the responses to the OP in this thread and almost instantly categorize them based on whether they are more similar to my first example (and thus communicatively inferior) or more similar to my second example (and thus communicatively superior). Such communicatively inferior posts are a waste of everyone's time: 1. The poster is not effectively communicating at all, so it is a waste of time to write it. 2. The OP is not receiving effective communication, so it is a waste of time to read it. 3. The entire atmosphere descends into toxicity, which is a waste of everyone's time. I see it in many, many threads on this forum, but you can just read the last few pages of this thread for a perfect illustration of this. I missed that part, I have to say it is instructive, thank you for that. SSF is not and will never be a standard for balance, it is not for people entitled to getting more without trading.	Posted by Fruz on Nov 21, 2018, 3:30:42 AM Quote this Post
" gibbousmoon wrote: Literally every post I've seen you make responding to criticisms of your behavior A. refuses to take responsibility, and lolwut? when did i ever refuse to take responsibility for anything i did? hint: never. " gibbousmoon wrote: B. blames others. ...this is contrary to your claim, already. you're blaming me. for what, i don't know... but congrats, you are yet again doing the same thing you're criticizing. yup, it's the current year. btw, OP refused to take responsibility for dying and then blamed ggg. then blamed us. STILL waiting to see one citation for where i said/implied i'm a victim, btw. glad i'm not holding my breath. edit: " gibbousmoon wrote: Your signature also reeks of it: "Boo hoo, GGG has moderated me, and it wasn't my fault I tell you! Look how minor my infractions were!" wow. it's... almost exactly what my sig says! /s no strawman there! from pretending i'm responsible for others' actions to such air-tight arguments demonstrated above. i demand reparations for the grave injustice i've incurred! [Removed by Support] "Your forum signature was removed as it was considered to be inappropriate and a breach of our Code of Conduct." ...it was quotes. from the forum. lolz! Last edited by robmafia on Nov 21, 2018, 5:40:36 AM	Posted by robmafia on Nov 21, 2018, 3:55:45 AM Quote this Post
Hi Exiles, Due to continuous breaches of our Code of Conduct this thread has now been locked.	Posted by Nichelle_GGG on Nov 21, 2018, 8:37:14 AM Grinding Gear Games Quote this Post