Shut-in needs advice

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VictorDoom wrote:

i google the word weeb and by that definition you do seem to be one minas..


here's an actual piece of advice, what id do if i were you anyway, throw out all your figurines and toys, wierd ass japanese fuckpillows, wank posters, play games less, quit the anime shit its cringy as fuck, pick up a real hobby(if you like japan so much start doing paintings in that shogun era style), go to the gym, start going out in your towns locals to find some women so you dont have to go on a date arranged by your freakin mom, if you dont work get a job, work toward something. Man the fuck up, youre 27, shits real, and cold, so you gotta adapt, you gotta change man.

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鬼殺し wrote:

Or do what I did. Stay single for ages, get addicted to chat rooms, act like the badass you never were, make a few really bad mistakes to learn chicks online are mostly fucking batshit, go back to being single...do it all again, but fluke that one in a million who isn't quite as batshit insane, hook up, weeb out together happily ever after.

35 figurines? Fucking weak. We've filled quite a few detolfs. We fly to Tokyo for anime concerts. She can basically tell you what happens in any given Sailor Moon episode and I can do the same with Kenshin. We marathoned Gintama together.

Neither of us ever owned a fucking anime sex pillow. Ditch that shit. Not even weeb girls will be into that.

Oh, and I was probably reading Nietzsche before you were in kindergarten.

Easy for me to admit because I got a weeb girl. [Removed by Support] Who actually fits into Japanese size dresses. One in a million. What the fuck do I have to lose admitting I read pretentious German philosophy and collect expensive Transformers? Nothing.

You, on the other hand, have to go through the shitty part. The part where you make those mistakes. Learn about compromise. Throw out the posters and sex pillows, upgrade to original cels and giant plushies of Shin Godzilla. Don't be the neckbeard nevergettinganyever weeb. Be the weeb that wants to share the weeb life. And in turn, be the weeb that wants to share another's life, whatever it may be. In our case, it was my metal and her lolita. Yours will likely be very different. But if you like someone, it doesn't matter. You are happy because it makes her happy. You don't have to embrace that world, and indeed it's good to have separate but intersecting passions. Goth lolita fits right in at a metal concert, and most suffering lolita boyfriends are metalheads. Intersecting, but separate.

Of course, theres always luck involved. And many times when the interests don't bring you or her joy. My gal really hates PoE, because she's seen how it's affected me over the past five years. But she accepts I love it, just as I accept she loves what she does even though sometimes there's a lot of drama because lolis are also frequently batshit insane. Go figure.

Still, there are steps you can take to be more receptive to a good relationship. I'll just repeat: no one worth being with is going to approve of anime sex pillows. No one. Maybe a fujoshi but oh my God don't fuck with the fujoshi. Just don't.

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Deadpeng wrote:

Be prepared for the worst outcome is my advice.

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鬼殺し wrote:

Oh, yeah. The true authority on life and relationships has entered the arena.

LOLFUCKINGLOL.

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鬼殺し wrote:

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solwitch wrote:

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鬼殺し wrote:

Oh, yeah. The true authority on life and relationships has entered the arena.

LOLFUCKINGLOL.

I would entertain this but every time we get into a conversation you end up having a hissy fit, quit the forums or get probated. Than you'll eventually come back and it starts all over again. If we could only have a thread were you're immune from bi Polar tendencies.

Edie: No offense to anyone that's bipolar

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Back on topic:

This thread is pretty heavy with the contradictory manchild sweat of 'women, why are they so mysterious!?' and 'I'm so afraid they'll find out I'm human too'...it's really not that mysterious. Just be someone you'd be okay with your sister being with. Real sister or imagined. Basic decency. Basic hygiene. Basic manners. I mean, I could say, 'be someone you'd be okay being with' but that's a hell of a lot harder to imagine. We all have weird habits and quirks that seem natural when it's us but would likely strike weird moments of surprise or disgust if we had to live with someone else doing it. For whatever reason, we're much more forgiving of our own shortcomings than others even when they're the exact same shortcomings! :)