"If something bad happened to you, its your fault"

"if you got hacked, it's your fault cos was because you were using HAX"
"If you died from desy, it's your fault because u should upgrade that toaster and move to USA"
"If you're poor, it's you fault because your noob and have bad KARMA"
"If you can't progress at melee it's clearly your fault for being stupid and NOT TRYING HARD ENOUGH"
"If you sold your Mirror for 1 alch it's your fault for trusting people"


This. Community.

...shows as much support and compassion as Piety. I hear people saying these forums are ALMOST worse than LoL/Blizzard. Guess what? I use them and even though they have occasional pithy comments/trolls/arguement they are NOTHING like the stuff that goes on here like the victim blaming mentality and masochist "Pain is good" mindset here. This forum stooped far below LoL forums have ever gone.
When i read "i got hacked" threads on the LoL community they are always filled with suggestions and help. In these forums all we ever get is "haha" and "noob get virus", "stop using hax", etc
I find it funny how people dread the lol community coming over when they are themselves so much worse.

If someone asks for help on this forum and all you've got is "you be stupid" you should get lost. Nobody wants to hear from you. Nobody likes you.

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sodium777 wrote:

"if you got hacked, it your fault cos was because you were using HAX"
"If you died from desy, its your fault because u should upgrade that toaster"
"If your poor, its you fault because your noob"
"If you can't progress at melee its clearly your fault for being stupid"
"If you sold your Mirror for 1 alch its your fault for trusting people"


This. Community.

Something happened that I could prevent. Its not my fault its GGG's.

This Community.

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Yngwieismygod wrote:

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sodium777 wrote:

"if you got hacked, it your fault cos was because you were using HAX"
"If you died from desy, its your fault because u should upgrade that toaster"
"If your poor, its you fault because your noob"
"If you can't progress at melee its clearly your fault for being stupid"
"If you sold your Mirror for 1 alch its your fault for trusting people"


This. Community.

Something happened that I could prevent. Its not my fault its GGG's.

This Community.

You can prevent desync?
You can prevent bad RNG?
You can prevent scammers from scamming?
You can prevent melee from being underpowered?


Yeah, thought so.

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pianokingx3 wrote:

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Yngwieismygod wrote:

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sodium777 wrote:

"if you got hacked, it your fault cos was because you were using HAX"
"If you died from desy, its your fault because u should upgrade that toaster"
"If your poor, its you fault because your noob"
"If you can't progress at melee its clearly your fault for being stupid"
"If you sold your Mirror for 1 alch its your fault for trusting people"


This. Community.

Something happened that I could prevent. Its not my fault its GGG's.

This Community.

You can prevent desync?
You can prevent bad RNG?
You can prevent scammers from scamming?
You can prevent melee from being underpowered?


Yeah, thought so.

Yes, yes, yes, yes and the fact that you compare rape to a game is just sad and pathetic. You have issues. - left this here for truth - Covert

Thought so.

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pianokingx3 wrote:

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Yngwieismygod wrote:

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sodium777 wrote:

"if you got hacked, it your fault cos was because you were using HAX"
"If you died from desy, its your fault because u should upgrade that toaster"
"If your poor, its you fault because your noob"
"If you can't progress at melee its clearly your fault for being stupid"
"If you sold your Mirror for 1 alch its your fault for trusting people"


This. Community.

Something happened that I could prevent. Its not my fault its GGG's.

This Community.

You can prevent desync?
You can prevent bad RNG?
You can prevent scammers from scamming?
You can prevent melee from being underpowered?


Yeah, thought so.

Desync is desync. It's a problem they are figuring out.
Bad RNG only goes so far.
People who fall for scams are stupid, yes.
Melee being underpowered is far from not being able to progress.

omg

that is all

rofl

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pianokingx3 wrote:

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Yngwieismygod wrote:

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sodium777 wrote:

"if you got hacked, it your fault cos was because you were using HAX"
"If you died from desy, its your fault because u should upgrade that toaster"
"If your poor, its you fault because your noob"
"If you can't progress at melee its clearly your fault for being stupid"
"If you sold your Mirror for 1 alch its your fault for trusting people"


This. Community.

Something happened that I could prevent. Its not my fault its GGG's.

This Community.

You can prevent desync?
You can prevent bad RNG?
You can prevent scammers from scamming?
You can prevent melee from being underpowered?

Yeah, thought so.

Yes to all of them

Desync - slow down and shit catches up..never caused me a single death and I play 2 of the worst builds for desync

RNG - RNG is RNG...Avoid it by playing a game with no RNG. Every similar type of game has RNG maybe this is not the type of game you enjoy

Scammers - You got scammed = your fault.....Ive never been scammed in any game ever....Its called common sense.

Melee - Many people are having no melee issues. They have spent the time to learn the necessary skills, combos, and builds to make melee fine. Again your problem for not doing the research or blindly building toons

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sodium777 wrote:

"if you got hacked, it your fault cos was because you were using HAX"
"If you died from desy, its your fault because u should upgrade that toaster and move to USA"
"If your poor, its you fault because your noob and have bad KARMA"
"If you can't progress at melee its clearly your fault for being stupid and NOT TRYING HARD ENOUGH"
"If you sold your Mirror for 1 alch its your fault for trusting people"


This. Community.

Common misconception by people that don't like those responses. (and of course you added unnecessary hyperbole - This.Community.Derp.) <--- More accurate.


It's not about whose "fault" it is.. it's whether someone should feel entitled to not have that thing happen to them because it's not their fault.

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It's not your fault you died to desync. It's your fault for not knowing that could happen and thinking we want to hear you QQ about it. As if your desync death was more important than any other desync death.

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It's not your fault you were scammed. It's your fault you accepted the challenge of trading without researching first. The scammer is to blame for the actual act, but you, me, nor GGG possess the power to prevent scamming. You can choose to be more educated and cautious. You chose not to.

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The big lesson that people don't get (and won't get even after reading this) -- is that bad things happen continuously to people that always blame something other than themselves when bad things happen. It might be someone elses' fault, but if you aren't the type of person to ask "What could I have done differently?" then you will constantly have similar things happen to you for the rest of your life. Other people will seem lucky and you will always feel like you get screwed.

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I came to this forum today even though I know 90% of the content posted is garbage. I didn't post this thread... so it's not "my fault" it exists... but it is my fault that I am reading this and responding to it because I knew this type of content would be posted before I ever entered the URL.

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^REALITY

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Cronk wrote:

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Spoiler

The big lesson that people don't get (and won't get even after reading this) -- is that bad things happen continuously to people that always blame something other than themselves when bad things happen. It might be someone elses' fault, but if you aren't the type of person to ask "What could I have done differently?" then you will constantly have similar things happen to you for the rest of your life. Other people will seem lucky and you will always feel like you get screwed.

Wow, this is totally over the top.

If someone hits their thumb with their hammer while doing carpentry work, pretty much all humans will 'blame themselves'.

If someone else is wielding the hammer and you are just holding the wood, and that person whacks you on the thumb, 100% of people will blame the hitter, even though it was your choice to hold the wood when you knew the other person was a fallible human being.

Incorrect. (And even used "100%" to describe something that is NOT 100%) :/

The first time someone whacks me with a hammer while I'm holding the wood... I'm pretty pissed at that person. The second time, even if it is a different person I'm still pissed at them but I'm also asking myself why I held the wood when I knew they might hit me by mistake. The third time it happens, my first thought is it was completely my fault because I knew there was a chance it was going to happen based on previous results and I accepted that risk when I agreed to hold the wood.

Replace the hammer with desync HC death and it is the exact same story.

"Fool me once..."

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You are right that I can't assume to know exactly how often any individual does this based on one example... but I can assume to know that appx 50% of people are below the middle threshold of self accountability. And I can assume that those 50% of people make up the vast majority of posts complaining about things that the other 50% accept, deal with, and adjust for the most part.

So if you are someone that QQ's about a desync death, there is a good chance you would get hit in the hand with the hammer 3,4,5+ times and blame the hammer wielder each time.