Proper way to deal with rude/insulting people in-game ?

I think: "Is this worth my time?"

If yes, I go full retard. If no, leave them to their stupidness.
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You found out his mistake, but you shouldn't have kept on rubbing it in his nose. The "fuck you" reply you recieved is the result of you pushing him and his lack of manners.
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anvilgod wrote:
You found out his mistake, but you shouldn't have kept on rubbing it in his nose. The "fuck you" reply you recieved is the result of you pushing him and his lack of manners.


I see it exactly this way. There is no reason to debate about if he has made the mistake or you.

He explained you nicely that it must be a mistake and he is not gonna sell it to you for 1 alch. It is not about you to tell him that he has to correct it or not. This can and in this case is being considered subtly offensive and therefore the reaction.

You should rather care on your businesses and accept a no in the first place (if it's that direct and reasonable as it appeared to be) and don't try to activate it further.


Scientists have found out that insults belong to the culte of younger generations more than ever before. Therefore I wouldn't put that much emphasize on it. It is meaningless.


Unlike most of the do-gooders here, I am here to admit that I would have reacted similarily and told you to gtfo if you would have insisted to waste my time for a one alch item the way you did.

You didn't show what has happened before in this conversation. I could imagine that you were quite penetrant on debating to legitimately buy the gem for one alch as he listed it for this price and you rightfully want to buy it at that cost now.


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Last edited by LSN#3878 on Jun 9, 2015, 4:52:44 PM
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So, what's the proper way to efficiently deal with this kind of rude people ?


Put them on ignore list.

Dont loose time with rude people. This is a game, should be fun...
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It is odd how 20 people in this thread can give a wrong analysis on the incident and continue to do so.


In reality most likely the OP was rude about rightfully buying the gem for 1 alch which was several times denied and explained by the villain (as can be seen on top of the screen) and not accepted by OP and followed by subtly offensive commands of OP to villain (which resulted from his disappointment of not being able to buy the gem for that cheap price).


The funny thing is, this thread tells more about the commentators and their comprehension abilities and OP than it actually does about the potential villain.

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awave wrote:
so instead of alerting him to the obvious mistake, you try to buy his lvl 18 gem for 1 alch? then you persist in annoying him when he tells you its a mistake...rather than leaving him alone or offering a fair amount?


recently that's happened to me and others as well, where for some reason items ive had listed for much more got switched around with other items and tagged for the lower price. i had a 20c-ish sword listed... for 18c, but something happened with either my stash or poe.trade where it was suddenly listed for 1 fusing.-i did NOT list it for this price-not my mistake but the system goofing up somewhere down the line. i had about a dozen people all pming me to buy it for 1 fusing all within a few days, none of them alerting me to the potential mistake.

another instance is when i tried to buy an incandescent heart in 1mhc-they were all listed for 18c-1ex except one for 1c... obviously the cheapest one is the one id want, so i asked the guy if that price was right, hinting that there might be a problem, and of course it wasnt. instead of getting the reaction your salesman gave you, this guy sold the armor to me for less than all the rest on poe.trade...


yeah he was rude to you and he shouldnt have acted that way, but it looks like your dishonesty got that reaction out of him. you should take responsibility for that also, and just turn the other cheek-you were both at fault.

theres a chance you werent the first person trying to snag the gem off of him either, it gets irritating after awhile and we can't always all immediately change our listing. you mightve been the 5th, 6th, 7th person trying to take his level 18 gem for 1alch...and just because everyone else is doing it doesnt make it right either. sure we all like a good deal, but within reason. this one was obvious.


I should have read page 3 earlier.

Gz for getting it right and not bashing a guy for his reaction to this kind of harassment.



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Last edited by LSN#3878 on Jun 9, 2015, 5:33:37 PM
OP is the problem.

yeah the guy made a mistake, he doesnt owe you some long drawn out conversation. he said he would not sell for 1 alc. you keep talking. he said ok i dont care im not selling for 1 alc. you.keep.talking.

take a hint OP, youre an annoying child lol
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Faendris wrote:
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Disrupted wrote:
make a 360 degrees turn and walk away


I would prefer 180 degrees in that situation :P


Maybe he is ramming him. In the animal kingdom, that works effectively to express your opinion.
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BerMalBerIst1 wrote:
With this particular guy you could just message him from a bunch of different accounts asking to buy the gem for 1 alch lol



Hahahahahahaha. thats awesome.
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