Toxic Global Chat

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bloodstainedcrown wrote:
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HwtChirino wrote:
there is far too much toxicity within this community, particularly in global chat.


According to YOU.

You asked about something in global chat, and someone said something that you didn't like. I don't care what it was... you CHOSE to take it literally and personally.

You also could have CHOSEN to NOT take it literally and personally.


I'm sorry, but if I tell you you should die and I hope you contact a deadly condition, how the hell is the blame on YOU and not ME? I agree that he should simply mute, report and move on, because that's the internet for ya, but to put to blame on him is just ridiculous.

Your example makes sense if the case at hand containts hypersensitivity. Ie. I tell you in global chat that you should do better damage numbers with your build than what you are doing currently, and you somehow get offended and complain to other people that I said you are playing your build badly... then I agree, you made an elephant from a fly. But if I tell you to kill yourself, that's me being an absolute jerk.
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ghamadvar wrote:
Look at games with a good community. With nice, helpful people. With a culture of discussion and dispute that still allows everyone to exist there unhurt and sane. That does not hurt the games, does it? I wish for something like this in POE also. Because there is no argument for toxic, inhuman and degrading behaviour at all.


Those games tend to have very heavy-handed moderation. Also, they often tend to be just more light-hearted, kid-friendly games themselves (Sea of Thieves, for example). 'Toxicity' tends to increase with both playerbase size and competitiveness (be glad PoE doesn't have the latter, though some people here still like to treat it like it does).

But I'm not here to make excuses for bad behaviour online. It's bad behavior, and you're welcome to call it out if you like (probably not a good idea though, since they'll just attack you back and so it becomes a question of who has the thickest skin). No, I'm just gonna point out that, at least for some people, the alternative is worse - that aforementioned heavy censorship. It's both more responsiblity for GGG, and more resentment among players. To a point, people accept it. Beyond that point, it just puts people off and crushes interaction (and in some cases even engagement with the game itself i.e. they leave - you may be fine with that, but GGG won't be).

So you don't have to make a case for global chat being, to paraphrase Obi-Wan, a wretched hive of scum and villainy. You have to make a case for substantially stepping up the moderation, and argue for how it won't hurt, or hurt much, what we already have. And keep in mind that just because people don't speak up doesn't mean they have nothing to say - it's still there, just suppressed.
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bloodstainedcrown wrote:
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essemoni wrote:
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bloodstainedcrown wrote:


Conflict is choice. It becomes a conflict, IF YOU MAKE IT (or perceive it as) A CONFLICT. And how do you do that? Most often by taking it personally.



I have an idea - its for a game.

I call it the 'See how long it takes to get fired from my job and possibly arrested' game.

All you have to do is, for about 1 or 2 hours, use the sentences that i will pull out of Global chat tonight, at your workplace, delivered in the manner that they are dlivered in global.

Want to respond to a question from your boss? You can tell him to go F&*^ him/herself. Want to answer a coworkers question? You could very loudly just call them a [Removed by Support] in front of the entire workplace...

Want to give it a go? Try it and lets see how long you remain employed.

Common decency is a thing people - you should use it.

And BTW - if you are really stupid enough to suggest somone hurt themselves, even in jest on a forum, and they do.... At least in Asutralia you can expect a visitation from the police and a court date.

Matt.



Just to clarify: Are you comparing Global Chat in a computer game to employment in a company? I'm seeing things in your post about "your boss" and telling them to go F themselves etc.

Yea... I got nothing for you.


Oh hell yes - exactly ..

Lets see how many of these big talkers are actually willing to go up to someone, to their face, in the workplace and talk to their co-workers in the same way they post rude, misogynistic, derogatory comments here.

Why? Because there is exactly no difference, except here you get to hide behind your anonyminity.

You can think what you want - hell - I do, but write mean things? I dont think so.

Matt.

PS. Is it just me who posts their real name in their posts? Oh wait ... it is.
There are 10 types of people. Those that know binary, and those that dont.
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essemoni wrote:

Oh hell yes - exactly ..

Lets see how many of these big talkers are actually willing to go up to someone, to their face, in the workplace and talk to their co-workers in the same way they post rude, misogynistic, derogatory comments here.

Why? Because there is exactly no difference, except here you get to hide behind your anonyminity.

You can think what you want - hell - I do, but write mean things? I dont think so.

Matt.


lul

In workplace you are surrounded by people you know or at least by people who share same goal - earn money. Cooperation is necessity but at the same time you don't feel forced (at least you shouldn't feel) to interact with others in polite way because your goal is similar.

What could be a real world example is: You are with a group of people talking about books and suddenly some random guy comes in and ask everybody how to make sushi. What is worst this isn't first time this happens. If anybody would tell him how to make sushi you would find yourself surronded by even larger group of randoms asking even more stupid questions.


This is exactly what happend here. Global chat IS NOT help chat. You enter global chat because you want to take part in non formal discussion and not because you feel urge to act as community support member.


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PS. Is it just me who posts their real name in their posts? Oh wait ... it is.


This is not a letter.
BTW check my nick, I guess im writing this post using my real name anyway.
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Exile009 wrote:
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ghamadvar wrote:
Look at games with a good community. With nice, helpful people. With a culture of discussion and dispute that still allows everyone to exist there unhurt and sane. That does not hurt the games, does it? I wish for something like this in POE also. Because there is no argument for toxic, inhuman and degrading behaviour at all.


Those games tend to have very heavy-handed moderation. Also, they often tend to be just more light-hearted, kid-friendly games themselves (Sea of Thieves, for example). 'Toxicity' tends to increase with both playerbase size and competitiveness (be glad PoE doesn't have the latter, though some people here still like to treat it like it does).

But I'm not here to make excuses for bad behaviour online. It's bad behavior, and you're welcome to call it out if you like (probably not a good idea though, since they'll just attack you back and so it becomes a question of who has the thickest skin). No, I'm just gonna point out that, at least for some people, the alternative is worse - that aforementioned heavy censorship. It's both more responsiblity for GGG, and more resentment among players. To a point, people accept it. Beyond that point, it just puts people off and crushes interaction (and in some cases even engagement with the game itself i.e. they leave - you may be fine with that, but GGG won't be).

So you don't have to make a case for global chat being, to paraphrase Obi-Wan, a wretched hive of scum and villainy. You have to make a case for substantially stepping up the moderation, and argue for how it won't hurt, or hurt much, what we already have. And keep in mind that just because people don't speak up doesn't mean they have nothing to say - it's still there, just suppressed.

censorship is a big word. And it does not suit the case here. This is a game made by a company. Not a political forum, run by a government. There is no censorship. There are guidelines a company makes. That's all. That's what i meant when i wrote that allwoing "you" to write "kill yourself" is not a statement for freedom of speech or a beacon of freedom. It is just lazy. And dangerous. More than one time i've seen things in global that are definitely against the laws in my country.

And about "the point of no return": we are talking about people telling others to "k*ll themselves" just because they ask questions about an item. We are talking about homophobic, rascist, and what not postings in global. If people would have a problem with moderation about stuff like this: screw them. Really. Trust me, i would be the first to raise the banner when GGG would start to "censor" too much. But there is a (not so fine) difference between allowing a rougher internet-tone or allowing degrading, punishable, misantropic toxicity no company or working, vital community would want anyways.

And i find it weird that people throw all this in one bucket. Call each other "nnob" as much as you want. But stop telling people you don't know that they should kill themselves. There is no reason for this. And there will never be.
The Sirus fight is a disgrace.
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HwtChirino wrote:
Today, I've had one of the worst experiences I've ever had in a game. I've been playing PoE on and off for over a year now..just barely got into it as delve league began and then took a long break until Legion.

Anyway, I asked a question in global about a fossil I had never seen before and asked what it did. Long story short, every response I got was disrespectful and eventually led to mocking me because I was ignorant about the Glyphic fossil, despite having completed the 40 challenges during this league.

Without specific details, it may sound like I'm being overly sensitive, but it wasn't a playful jest, it was full-on contempt and condescension.



Someone told me to kill myself. And while he repeatedly said this, not a single person actively present in global chat protested his depravity. Do you not find this problematic??



I got really upset because, firstly, that is absolutely disrespectful and offensive. But more importantly, secondly, it inspired despair within me. The reason is this: I have continuously been witness to the toxicity being spread in global chat (and I'm ashamed to admit that I have also been part of the problem at times, but with remorse), and the issue seems so beyond wide spread and accepted--no--encouraged! as normative that if you were to rebuke those who behaved so negatively and immorally, then you would become a giant target of their nasty attacks. What's more, the majority of the bystanders laugh at all of the malicious comments launched at their victims. I do not want to say anymore about what goes on; I'm sure everyone knows exactly what I'm referring to.

I am sick of the apathy of this community, and forgive me for accusing anyone of this, but it is my impression that, as a whole, our community is largely indifferent towards making any substantial efforts to eliminate toxic behaviors exhibited between players, especially through global chat.

I am not sure what my post will accomplish, if it accomplishes anything at all. But my hope is that it will raise awareness of a serious problem that I believe to be corroding our community, and even our humanity. If anyone reading this believes it is acceptable in any way to treat another person contemptuously and maliciously for no good reason (because there is in fact no good reason), you are part of the problem. No one sane and who possesses dignity would ever welcome mistreatment. Thus, there can be nothing good or right in mistreating others in this game.

The bullying and emotional terrorism that has invaded PoE is corrosive to all human decency that remains in this community. Reading global chat for merely 10 minutes, on most days, will be sufficient evidence to convince you that the behaviors I have described are becoming more and more normative, and they are occurring with seemingly zero resistance from those who witness them. Sure, the victim of an attack might report his/her attacker. But more often than not, other people will join in the bullying. And since there is generally more toxic people, and because those who disagree with them tend not to use global chat very much, there remains very few people (or no one) to protest the abuse, far fewer who are even willing to say anything.

If a GM reads this, please, refer your superior to what I've posted. I understand that it may not be feasible to assign a GM to the most popular global chats to monitor what is said every hour, which is why the report feature was implemented. Yet, perhaps there is something else that can be done to supplement the existing judicial system of this game>

And to fellow players, please I encourage you to be part of a movement to restore decency, respect, compassion, and peace throughout our community, and especially if you participate in global chat. We need to publicly declare immoral behavior to be just that: wrong, indecent, inappropriate, etc. If we speak out against what someone has done because we deem it wrong, we should speak out with tact and civility. I'm not proposing that we stop notifying GMs, I'm just saying that we should try to care more about what our community stands on and stands for.

I'm sorry for the disorganization of my message. Please feel free to share your thoughts on anything I've said.

Sincerely,
Theo


Now imagine those people are posting in reddit and here.

I think that the extreme RNG nature of this game brings a lot of stress on poe players.

Rates and drops in poe are not "just" random, they are exaggerately random and agnostic.

Meaning very few things are targetable (boss loot tables and cards for example), BUT the targetable loot is yet again behind an extra layer of rng to compensate (rng for fragments or farming rng currency to buy them).

In GD (full content) you have farming routes for specific mats, you can reroll set parts, and besides that you have lootsplosions on higher content (crucible and SR), if i can dress 20 chars/builds in 200-300h then all the power to Crate/GD and to me the player.

D3 may be even easier or too easy but then you can direct your farming towards something, kanai cube, kadala, then farming towards higher GR, you don't feel the timesink

Everything else in poe is an absolute gamble, you may very well have been wasting one day of farming for nothing but baseline currency drops, and proceed for a week without an upgrade. Crafting in poe with these gazilion useless rolls is an absolute joke and gamble incarnate.

And especially, league refresh and "market impact" always always take precedence over > player experience, plus many balance issues and fomo factors caused by the online only setting

I think this puts a heavy stress/anxiety and fomo on players, I can tell you the sense of relief when i got away
Gives streamers & friends queue priority and leaves supporters who spent hundreds $ packs in the 100k queue.

GGG: Don't you guys follow streamers?
Last edited by ZaeN#4962 on Sep 2, 2019, 9:49:05 AM
Expecting moderation with speech you don't aprove off, talking down to ppl,calling them toxic etc makes a community far more toxic then any edgy kid using bad words.
Also the dihonesty here is while no surprise staggering , nobody is defending ppl telling others to kill themselves being racist homophobe etc.(eventho those words have lost any and all meaning) those things are reportable and will be moderated in global.

Edgy kids don't bother me much, mainly cause i am an adult and i can shrug it of and i realise there is no real malevolent intent behind it.

The ppl who call others toxic and speak down to ppl and want to control their speech are often far more hatefull and toxic towards other ppl then any edgelord will ever be, they just hide their distain towards other ppl behind eloquence and seemingly reasonable requests and statements.
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Once men turned their thinking over to machines in the hope that this would set them free. But that only permitted other men with machines to enslave them

“The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command.”
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essemoni wrote:
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bloodstainedcrown wrote:


Conflict is choice. It becomes a conflict, IF YOU MAKE IT (or perceive it as) A CONFLICT. And how do you do that? Most often by taking it personally.



I have an idea - its for a game.

I call it the 'See how long it takes to get fired from my job and possibly arrested' game.

All you have to do is, for about 1 or 2 hours, use the sentences that i will pull out of Global chat tonight, at your workplace, delivered in the manner that they are dlivered in global.

Want to respond to a question from your boss? You can tell him to go F&*^ him/herself. Want to answer a coworkers question? You could very loudly just call them a [Removed by Support] in front of the entire workplace...

Want to give it a go? Try it and lets see how long you remain employed.

Common decency is a thing people - you should use it.

And BTW - if you are really stupid enough to suggest somone hurt themselves, even in jest on a forum, and they do.... At least in Asutralia you can expect a visitation from the police and a court date.

Matt.



have you tried calling your boss toxic or homophobe or racist etc.
Or have you tried talking down to your boss? and tried to moderate his speech?
See this works both ways if in fact it would work this way cause these are 2 different envirorments and comparing them is stupid.
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Once men turned their thinking over to machines in the hope that this would set them free. But that only permitted other men with machines to enslave them

“The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command.”
@ the OP (and certain other individuals in this thread, but I won't risk a ban... name-shaming and pointing fingers, hehehe)

You are clearly a romantic, no doubt about that. And no matter what people tell you here, in a random game's chat-room, or any other virtual (or real for that matter) place, IT IS A GOOD QUALITY of character, and you should stick to it throughout your entire life. In fact you should be very proud of it too, such a rare quality these days --regretably so.

People nowadays are just... consumers, plain and simple, literally devouring everything, only they can't get enough, of anything, voracious appetites n all that. And they gone do everything they can to sway you, and turn you into one of them. DON'T TURN iNTO ONE OF THEM. EVER.

All one can do is laugh at their faces. Learn to laugh at their faces. Or listen to some UB40, you know, "Cherry oh, Cherry oh, baby" and that kinda stuff. But it's a long and winding road...
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Have you never been on the internet? I get told to kill myself atleast 3 times a day. So what? Its just words, they cant hurt you if you dont let them.

And next time use the wiki, and if this does not help, THAN you can ask in the global.
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