People loading into my hideout often have huge load times

I'm pretty sure this has been happening since the 3.21.2 that updated the graphics.

At least half the time when someone joins my hideout to trade, they take a really long time to load in. A couple have even gotten disconnected/crasehd. They appear to me, but trade requests time out 2-4+ times before they are able to accept the trade request. I thought this was a general issue since the patch, but I'm starting to think it's some combination of effects in my hideout specifically. The last person to visit said, literally 4 minutes after their character appeared to me, "my pc exploded loading your hideout". Not the most specific bug report, but it clued me in that maybe I'm the problem. I do have a lot of effects in my hideout (many iron lanters, some ghostly fogs, smoke, wisps, a fire, bunch of plants) so it may have been impacted by the update. I haven't really changed the decorations in months, so I don't think it's anything I changed recently.

Here's the area around my waypoint, if it helps: https://imgur.com/21gE1Y1

I have the same now. Tryed to change the hideouts with minimum MTXs. Feels like pay to not load. Can't find any response or known issue of GGG. I guess they are working hard on that Ruthless vision.