squid issues and loading screen in town

So basically I'm not a vet or anything I got around 120-130 hours into this game and I'm loving it.I enjoy the challenging bosses I've encountered so far but now I got an issue with one.

I finally got to the elder part , the guardians spawned,I killed them,then proceeded to the elder,he spanked me,I got few lvls improved my char a bit then went back to him and got through the first phase almost flawlessly(quite slowly if that's a flaw) and then I died.

When I die in a map I get resurrected in my hideout right ? Loading hideout takes like 1-2 secs for me,but when I go to a town it takes ages to load.Every time I die,It takes me a minute or so to load the town,the rest take few seconds max,the hideout,the map and then the actual elder arena but the town loading is the biggest issue for me because I cannot kill the elder on the first try,not yet atleast,but I want to fight him honestly because I enjoy the challenge,but not to the point where I have 1 shot only,no no I don't like that.

The issue is that by the time the town loads and after all the loading screens to get back to him ASAP,I port in and the map is flooded with decay spots on the ground and ATLEAST 3 squids flowing around.At this point it's over for me,literally can't do anything.Really frustrating , I don't know if it's my laptop being too weak or the internet being too slow or mix of both.Honestly I think just respawning in my hideout would solve the issue but I don't know how to make that happen.Anyone ?

Yes they should respawn you in hideout but you should get SSD anyways..

I doubt squids spawn and poo the ground DoT while you are outside of the arena