This is one the most stressful games.

Try SSF. It takes away the trading aspect of the game and to some degree the community factor.
It´s just you and the game. Every itemdrop you get will feel different and I can only say
that the joy of dropping the exact item you want for your character, is one of the best feelings
I´ve had in this game.

lol best topic ever.. what u was expecting after finish act10 bro? a window popping up and saying u won in lottery 10m dollars? :D

If you want any gear or item u have to fight for it, and you do it on maps. Finishing 10 acts isn't the hardest challenge of the game. Try atziri, uber lab, shaper, guardians, go HC. Grab your balls or just leave maybe this game isn't for u :)