looking for chilled players

In lack of a "Looking for group/players" forum (suggestion @GGG), I dont know where to put this, so I post it here.

first off, please excuse my bad english, it's not my native language.

I know that games like Path of Exile are perfectly suited towards nowadays fast paced lifestyle.
Whole life seems to be a rush, so why not ingame.
Well, I am an oldschool gamer (in the middle of my 40s getting older by the day ^^...). I do play games like PoE and many other MMO(RPG's) since the dawn of time (the invention of MUD's to be precise). So I remember the old days, when "rushing" did not equalize in "having fun" and "not rushing" did NOT equalize in "lol noob".
I do enjoy playing this game, but the need to rush, or if you dont, getting flamed and being called noobish and left behind is something I don't like.
It's not that I say anything against rushers and run-run-run kids. It's just though I don't enjoy it.

I like to login to the game, socialise with some nice crazy folks on Teamspeak/Vent/Mumble/Raidcall/whatever..., play together, be helpful and friendly...(use a lot of F-words....^^), being able to come bitching from time to time... in general take it nice and slow.
I actualy like to enjoy the game, laidback chilled playstyle, if you know what I mean.
This does not mean that I don't play competetive at all, in fact I like to set me some goals in games and reach them, but I do it at my own speed and I stop to smell the flowers from time to time. (after being a top notch PVP'er in two sperate games AND scoring multiple Euro- and German First Kills as well.. call that competetive enough? I do have a background ;) )

I speak german and english, play mostly in the evening (GMT+1).
I own no wealth ingame but I am selffound and I dont need nothing.
I am helpful and I always put my group before myself.
I am NOT a lootbitch or ninja (am very bad and slow with clicking, I am an oldschool gamer, have 38 keybindings around my left hand in other games... and now I have to click, imagine ^^)
I like streaming my attempts to create a laidback playstyle on Twitch, and I like a good laugh.
I like theorycrafting and do it a lot. I read a lot about the game and it's mechanics and I like to try out new builds a lot. I can play SC/HC whatever you want (did not play Onslaught though... yet)
I do not have a high level character. mostly because I get bored playing alone all the time, it's pretty tough to be completly selffond in this game.
Currently I play a Cold Critter (Freezepulse Shadow Glascannon with no gear) and just started a "Lazy Pally" Templar (immortal with great gear already) both in Anarchy League. With the Templar I started to do the "Clear all maps" thing and I do this solo, so I go very slow but steady and I like that character much more than my Freezepulser...

So, I know I will probably get flamed and posting this in the official forums will most likely be an open invitation for some common "lol noob" 12 year old behavior.
Well, feel free to do so kid (or go get a real life before you call me names b***h)
But if you are like me and you like a more laidback playstyle, and you know a group of likeminded people with Teamspeak or whatever... please speak up! I am sick of playing alone or with rushers only.
So, this is my attempt of "looking for chilled guild" in a game without a guild system (I do want one please @GGG)

TL;DR I like to stop and smell the flowers. :-)
If you are like me, invite me please.
I am looking for some likeminded people, preferably with Teamspeak/Vent/Mumble and the ability to use the human language from time to time.