Extreme lag in ps5

I play a lot of multiplayer games. My Wi-Fi isn't the best I might have the occasional sputter every couple games on the finals, but p o e 2 on my PlayStation 5 is completely unplayable. I'm lagging every single second just walking around, well before I've even seen an enemy. I have every single setting turned down to the lowest possible graphics and the best possible performance, I've tried multiple different gateway regions, I've changed the DNS settings and set my wifi too 5GHz on my PlayStation 5, I've tried everything outside of an ethernet cable, which I can't really feasibly get into my room without drilling a hole in the floor and getting a 40 ft cable that I just don't have. I've already dropped your game once because of this horrific lag making the game unplayable and unenjoyable, especially when it comes to the boss fights that I, while quite enjoy, also are relatively impossible when I'm unable to perform the precise Dodge is necessary due to excessive lag and rubber banding. I'm aware that you have attempted to fix performance issues with the recent update but I don't believe I'm having performance issues, and it makes no sense for your game specifically to be having such extreme issues when no other game does. I'm in act 2 for the love of God, the game has just started, I'm not even an end game. Please please please do anything you can in terms of optimizing your servers, maybe you consider opening one around the Northwest kind of in the corner of America as I actually don't really have a good server to pick, I have to pick between California and Canada, I live in Washington near the Canadian border, I don't notice any difference between the two of them, which has me believed that I'm smack in the middle of them, which could be an explanation to the extreme lag. In the current state I am completely unable to play this game, there is no other game like this on my PlayStation. Well I understand that other people aren't having this issue through the same degree I'm sure that there are others that would appreciate it if you could optimize your servers so that those that don't have easy or ready access to an ethernet cable are still able to play your game. I like that's a big thing I put money into this I would really like to be able to play the game. Thanks for your time.