Cannot Play with Friends very disheartening.

Just like title says I have no idea what is different I haven't changed any settings, everything was going smoothly till a 2 days ago, I'm using a gaming laptop with a Intel core i7 9750H @ 2.60GHz
32 GB of ram
Nividia Geforce GTX 1660 Ti

So, I don't think specs are all off a sudden an issue, everything I look up for crashes just to lower graphics and this does not seem to me as a graphic issue as nothing on this actually issue exist or I can't find anything on this, we play for about less then a minute and I'm the only one who is crashing, no error or anything is popping up it as if the game is just closing on its own. love the game,

Yes game run's no issues when I'm by myself I can load up 80% delirium map, with 8 harbingers, beast on map play it solo, I throw in a blank map with my brother and I crash every time, don't know what other information I can provide, its only when I enter maps with him also, we haven't tested going into heist together, but all he can do is chill in the h/o with nothing going on as it seems right now, if there is something I can do to provide more information I'll do my best to provide it,

you not the only one . i have same problem. 2 days ago was fine, no stuttering. now i keep dying on map because freeze like 2 second