Why level 90ish for skills and ascendancy PLEA TO GGG

So it seems like level 90 is when I get to start playing my character. Trials are best around level 90. Cant even get a chance to farm for level 19-20 skills till level 90. Anything before that is a huge chance of losing if you are not perfect or get one shot by some off screen mechanic. I ask again did you play the game GGG did you test this. Endgame gearing is one thing end game bosses are another but end game finishing of skill gems and ascendancy points is just uncalled for. I should not have to level for hours on a fresh character ssf to gain much needed power. I have standard and ssf chars. I Tried Trial of Suckmyarse using all the relics I have collected along the way so 60% inc honor 65% honor res. Well here is how it went. Got to the 4th floor np with near full honor 13k ish. While getting to the last boss I loose 11k of that due to off screen mobs or the plethora of ranged ignite mobs on areas where I can not attack them just avoid them while being pushed into everything I avoided, but they even are on the edge or off screen, and getting hit. WTF is ignite dmg doing like 3000% more dmg because it sucks playing it. So I get to the boss and ofc loose my honor because of prime time lag which I have played though for a month. (why does Texas Region the LARGEST in the US suck). Even on a really geared char in trade league I wait till 87 and even its a struggle and failure is possible depending on many factors that are not just skill issues. THE CONTENT IS OVER TUNED FOR NEWER PLAYERS. Trial of chaos however has its issues but is much better tuned. Yeah you can still die to the stupid tornado bird that is 3x harder than the other 2 bosses. At random turns into a tornado hope your not melee cause you are def dead if that happens and your not insta quick. I would think for the future of POE2 maybe consider giving people endgame gems earlier and not as rare as you need a level 2 are with a 5% chance to corrupt a t15 and the rare one in 4 maps you may find a vaal orb. SERIOUSLY DO WE HAVE TO LOCK THE FUN IN THE CABNET BECAUSE DADDY JUST WOKE UP ON THE WRONG SIDE OF WHOOPARSE. OH and did you model the game after Starship Troopers. If you dont understand this think about it.