Any time I party, no matter how many people, 95% of it seems to be greyed to me. I sit 10 feet from someone I'm in a party with and it's always going to him. I this by design or something? It's seriously hurting at level 65. I can't party for loot, but need the loot to farm.
He and I have made a run of Ledge where literally I get 1 orb and he's gotten a dozen and some yellows.