Ignore bug

So this is first time i meet this.

a friend of mine, wanted me to join his friends ho, i couldnt "cant acces ho becuz ignore"

but after some talk forward and back, we both cleared our full ignore list,

i still cant enter his ho, but he can enter mine, we can see what each other write, and he can party intive me etc.

is this a common bug, that people who are not ignorelisted cant join hideouts cuz they are

ignorelisted ( wich in this chase non of us are )

Make sure he set his hideout to let people in.

we did all these things

cleared each other ignore list

opened all hideout options

on friendlist / in party / only need to try in same guild, wich i wont do.

something is terrible wrong here :S

no help here ?